''You can win’’ by the author Shiv Khera book summary motivates people and takes things right from their daily lives and turns them into positive emphasis. This book is for those who pursue a balanced personality and who want to move towards success with positivity. Self-help books are easy to read.
This book teaches you why you should have a value system in your life. It also gives you an idea about basic concepts like self-esteem and real education.
'’Attitude” is one of those words that keeps popping up again and again.
Yes, it is important that most successful people get their point of view right before being successful. Your attitude is determined by how you think and behave. Having the right attitude will help when facing any situation.
Often the people you influence with your attitude surround you. That is why you should protect your brain from harmful effects.
Jeff Keller discussed a similar thing that Attitude is everything. He explained how one can change his life by changing his perspective.
Your attitude acts as a foundation. And by having a strong foundation, you ensure that other things fall into the right place.
Can buildings with weak foundations survive earthquake disturbance? No.
He is with us. How can a person with the wrong attitude avoid troubles in life?
Attitude also affects your attitude towards life. For example, 2 people, when subjected to the same problem, may react differently depending on the problem. It is the method that determines a person's level of success in their life.
The author states that people's attitude contributes to success, as a study done by Harvard University says that 85 percent of people get jobs because of their attitude, and only 15 percent of people get jobs because they are smart or intelligent.
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Factors that affect your
attitude:-
There are various factors that affect your attitude, but the main factors are:
· Environment
· Experience
· Education
Environment - Under the environment, there comes home, school, work, media, culture, religion, tradition, social environment and political environment.
Experience - Writer says that our behavior changes according to our experience with people and events in our life; if we have positive experiences with people then our attitude also becomes positive
Education - Here the author talks about formal and informal education, here the author is not only talking about educational qualifications or a degree, here the author is talking about knowledge which gives information and ensures success.
Positive or Negative: Which type of
attitude is best?
You always have a choice. So it is up to you what attitude you choose. According to the author, you should stick to a positive attitude. A positive attitude helps you stay more productive, reduces stress, encourages you to solve a problem, and improves the quality of your life.
And conversely, a negative attitude hurts you more than good and often leads you to resentment.
"Do it now"
attitude
If these three words follow, can change your whole life.
Most people live with a "do it later" attitude instead of "do it now". Procrastination is a major problem these days.
The author says that when you are relaxed, your energy is released much faster than normal. You should do things without wasting your time. In this way, you will feel more energetic with a sense of accomplishment.
But people with negative attitudes barely get above the point. They keep the heritage. And as a result, they later regret it. Stop it. Do not delay and delay your success!
"Fully use your
present"
There is no point in blaming it. The thing is: for better or worse, you are here on this planet to survive now.
You've got to do your best at any time or at least make full use of your time. This is what people with positive attitudes do. They live in the present moment and do what they can in the best possible way.
Living in the present does not mean that you want to completely ignore the past and the future. This is also not possible, given the large memory bank in your head. The idea is to use your time in the best way. And to do this you definitely have to plan. Often people fail to get the idea right.
It's not fake
Heard the advice "Fake it until you make it." This is the worst advice ever. Why? Because you can't fake anything for a long time. You cannot show off on the basis of fake personality every time. The only way to improve your personality is to add substance to it. For example, if you want an attractive personality, then work for it.
You will not be attractive by faking. Exercise, read books, do exciting things, work with amazing people. Knowing this will help you develop and maintain a right mindset. You cannot create a right attitude just by thinking, and worst of all - pretending.
Education is more
than you think
If you are reading this summary, you probably know what real education is. When people talk about education, there is a lot of fuss about educational qualifications and degrees. In particular, things like character building and teachings related to ethics and ethics are completely ignored or underestimated compared to technical knowledge.
Is the education system following the right approach? Why is it that there are failures in our society that do not understand moral values and lack humanity?Because today's education focuses on filling the information in our mind. Most so-called educated people are living encyclopedias, who cannot even handle their own filth. (Sorry for the slang!)
Here is what the author says about education:
“True education is
training of both the head and the heart.”
Shiv Khera
It is only by working on both head and heart that you become educated for real.
Real education comes through real-life experiences. An educated person is competent enough to use his skills in the right circumstances. Even if you’re a post-graduate on a topic, it doesn’t matter unless you know how to put that knowledge to use.
Remember that:
“Knowledge is only potential power.”
A wise man
How do you know if you’re educated?
I bet the author isn’t completely against the idea of acquiring academic qualifications.
Never underestimate
the power of common sense
Education is nothing without common sense. Often people believe that common sense is a common thing. But the author states that common sense in abundance is actually knowledge.
You do not need a fancy degree or qualification to call yourself intelligent. Wisdom comes automatically when general knowledge is applied and accumulated in life.
Common sense gives you the ability to think and separate good or bad for you. So use it every time you decide. In fact, by not using this extreme power you will fail. You will regret not using common sense if needed
Many people lose their credibility, fall prey to hackers, and lose their money. If only those people start using common sense and avoid downloading malicious files to their laptop or PC, then they will prevent such tragedies.
What's more, l education does not teach you how to use common sense. Avoid being ignorant. Learn to apply common sense in every aspect of your life.
You Can Win Quotes
“True education is
training of both the head and the heart.”
Shiv Khera
“Spend so much time
improving yourself that you have no time left to criticize others.”
Shiv Khera
“Think only the best, work only for the best,
and expect only the best.”
Shiv Khera
“Count your blessings,
not your troubles.”
Shiv Khera
So, discuss morals
according to the author
1. When our attitude is right, then we realize that we are all walking on Acre and Acre of diamonds.
2. The grass on the other side always looks green.
3. The author says that every person in this world likes grass on the other side; it means that when you like someone else's grass then another person also likes some people.
4. The author states that when the person does not know how to recognize the occasion, they complain of noise when he knocks.
5. The same opportunity never knocks twice, the next opportunity may be better or worse but it can never be the same.
6. In this book the author has shared the benefits of positivity, this book inspires us and leads us in the right direction, this book can be read anytime you feel sad or depressed will inspire you and lead you in the right direction.